Leadership Development: How to Get Started?

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Wouter Robijn
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Leadership Development: How to Get Started?
So, how do you begin?
And what if you want to grow as a leader yourself?
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Leadership Development: How to Get Started?

Leaders are crucial for the performance and well-being of their teams and employees. This connection is consistently found in both science and practice. However, it turns out that it’s not so simple to help these leaders grow in their roles. So, how should you approach this?

First of all, there are no “good” or “bad” leaders. Even we sometimes misspeak, but what we’re really referring to is leadership behavior (i.e., what the person in a leadership role does), not the person themselves (of course, certain personal traits may influence this behavior). Our aim is to promote leadership behaviors that we know are effective and limit those that are inefficient or counterproductive.

Maybe let’s start at the beginning: What exactly should leaders do? The essence of leadership (behavior) in organizations is to influence and facilitate individual and collective behaviors to achieve shared objectives. In simple terms: leaders need to ensure that individuals and teams meet their goals. So, if your organization wants to develop its leaders, the goal is to help them support others in the simplest way possible to achieve those goals.

So, how do you begin?

Let’s assume you’re starting big:
  • Step 1: Start with clear goals for the team and clear expectations for your leaders. Clear goals seem obvious, but this isn’t just about targets—it also includes quality, the well-being of the people, etc. Clear expectations are about WHAT the leader must/can do and what they can’t, but also about HOW.
  • Step 2: Look at your systems. How do you evaluate/reward and select people? How do you approach projects? What can leaders decide for themselves, and where do they need permission? Does this align with your expectations for your leaders? The goal is mainly to ensure that the systems and procedures you have are supporting the leadership behaviors you expect, rather than hindering them. This is a long-term effort, so start small and continue working on it while progressing through the other steps.
  • Step 3: Look for exemplary behavior. Chances are, many of the leaders are already doing the right things. Reinforce this, but also do the opposite. Clearly indicate what is not acceptable and make this known in practice.
  • Step 4: Take a critical look at the individuals in leadership positions. Are they the right person for the job? In a previous blog, we wrote about four key focuses or predictors (the right motivation, the desire to serve, emotional intelligence, and whether the leader believes they can do the job). The goal is not to deny a group of people their leadership role, but to have a conversation with everyone and place the right person in the right role. Leadership is about a role and responsibilities, and with clear agreements, you can distribute these effectively.
  • Step 5: Work on your leaders’ skills. A supportive context, clear expectations, exemplary behavior, and the right attitude give a leader a strong head start. But without the right knowledge (e.g., do they know what motivates someone, how to deal with change, how to intervene in a team dynamic, etc.?), the necessary skills (e.g., giving feedback, resolving conflicts, having courageous conversations, helping someone grow, etc.), and the opportunity to practice (and sometimes fail), the potential is not yet fully realized. Provide learning opportunities and support during practice.
  • Step 6: Sit down with a nice drink in a comfortable place (with or without colleagues who helped you) and enjoy your hard work.
  • Step 7: Critically review Steps 1 through 5 and continue to improve.
  Now, if you can’t start on such a large scale, that’s okay. Doing nothing is often the worst thing you can do. Do you feel that you also want to focus on leadership development in your organization but find it hard to follow all the steps? No problem. If you want to start smaller, do what you can. It can sometimes be more efficient to follow a logic, but know that you can switch gears faster when things are smaller. Take that as your strength. Gather a group of like-minded individuals, see which of the above steps you need most and where you can have an impact from your position. For example, you can still create a small charter around what you expect from leaders (Step 1). This gives some clarity and makes it easier to look for exemplary behavior (Step 3). Sit down with the people who select leaders, share with them our 4 key focuses or predictors and have a good conversation about it (Step 4). Switch to Step 6 and repeat often to recharge your own batteries. Ask the existing leaders what they would like to learn and how you can support them (Step 5). When new tools or procedures come in, do a leadership check: how can this be adjusted to make leadership easier (Step 2). As you can see, it doesn’t all have to be grand. Occasionally making small interventions will already help your leaders grow a lot.

And what if you want to grow as a leader yourself?

Great, you don’t need complicated structures. Ask your team members and yourself the following questions and get started with them.

Questions for your team members

  • What is our team goal?
  • What do you need to do your job well?
  • What do you expect me to do?
  • What do you expect me not to do?
  • What am I already doing well as a leader?
  • Where can I still grow as a leader?

 

Questions for yourself

  • Is the team goal the same for everyone? Where do we need to make adjustments?
  • How much time do I have to lead?
  • Why did I become a leader? Is that reason still the same?
  • What do I enjoy about leading?
  • What do I want to learn in the upcoming period?
  • Who can help me? Who is my inspiration as a leader?

 

As you can see, there’s a lot you can do around leadership development, regardless of your perspective. Above all, remember that leadership is behavior. To promote this behavior, we need to make it easy to exhibit the right behavior. We do this by focusing on clear goals and expectations, systems that support this behavior, leading by example, having the right person in the leadership role, and by learning and practicing leadership behavior.

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